Pinned topic 自律与真爱

‏2018-10-22T07:34:25Z | Tags:

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所谓自律，就是主动要求自己以积极的态度去承受痛苦，解决问题。自律有四项原则：推迟满足感、承担责任、忠于事实、保持平衡。实践四个原则的基础是对自我价值的认可，它的关键在于态度，要勇于面对痛苦而不是逃避。

至于为什么自律的人愿意通过自我约束去承受人生的痛苦。都源于对生活的热爱。爱，是人们自律的原动力。它为了促进自己和他人心智成熟而不断拓展自我界限，是实现自我完善的一种意愿。区分真爱也有几点原由：首先当事人意识和潜意识中的目标是一致的。其次，爱是一个长期、渐进的过程。第三，真正意义上的爱是爱自己，也是爱他人。第四，爱需要真诚付出，付诸行动。最后，爱是一种由意愿而产生的行动，是主动选择而不是被强迫。

陈晓丹 eb041740-b761-1036-8c1d-ef16cba5f6da cxiaodan@kinlong.cn

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‏2018-10-23T00:45:14Z

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自律更高点境界是不觉得痛苦，自动自发。。。
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‏2018-10-23T01:24:11Z

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自律有四项原则：推迟满足感、承担责任、忠于事实、保持平衡。实践四个原则的基础是对自我价值的认可，它的关键在于态度，要勇于面对痛苦而不是逃避。
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‏2019-04-04T03:18:23Z

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所谓自律，就是主动要求自己以积极的态度去承受痛苦，解决问题。
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‏2019-04-04T05:24:25Z

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‏2019-11-22T08:17:58Z

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自律就是要打败最大的敌人：自已。该做的事必须要做，不该做的事绝对不能做然后持续坚持下去克服人性内处的弱点：懒惰享乐，怕吃苦要面子虚伪，自我欺骗把这些统统撕的粉碎。=自律
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‏2020-04-22T06:28:00Z

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‏2020-04-29T03:21:32Z

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‏2020-05-05T07:47:28Z

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爱是一种由意愿而产生的行动，是主动选择而不是被强迫。
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‏2020-05-21T09:28:34Z

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爱是一种由意愿而产生的行动，是主动选择而不是被强迫。
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‏2020-06-03T08:30:25Z

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‏2020-06-03T10:41:14Z

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爱是一种由意愿而产生的行动，是主动选择而不是被强迫。
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‏2021-01-19T09:14:35Z

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‏2021-07-07T03:17:06Z

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